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  • He announced he is leaving…

    We were together 17 years, two beautiful amazing boys. We met in a finance world but soon after second pregnancy i quit my job and started to take care of the kids, home. I was doing it very well, my husband carrier was up in the sky because i provided him with love, support, advice. I got myself into a burnout, where during the day i was still running the household and during the night had panic attacks. We started to get emotionally apart. Soon after my husband had depression because work was too much for him to handle. I was there for him, supporting.
    Then corona, 2 years of working from home, chaos with kids…
    He was offered a fantastic job in another country, but now he wants to leave me and start from the new page his life.
    I feel betrayed because it was so sudden!
    Yes, the last 9 months i was activwly helping ukrainian refugees, as im myself from Ukraine. I was sorting things for my parents.
    It was too much on my plate! I really would like he talked to me.
    But he announced he is leaving…
    Im sad and broken
    Sometimes pain is so strong i feel i cant take it anymore.
    I exercise myslef hours in the gym to feel the physical pain in mucles, because emotional pain is so heavy😞
    Mariya
    > 2 jaar geleden
    Mariya 2 Laatste bericht: 16-08-2023
    • Loving yourself by taking good care of yourself and looking feminine and being feminine will hopefully bring your husband back. Being femine means loving unconditionally. Saying that

      Focus on loving
      11-08-2023
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    • Ik begrijp deze wereld niet, als trouwen dat is voor (ook voor gemeente) een belofte voor het leven (by the way I reply in Dutch and I am, but i am afraid to say that by now English is better than Dutch.

      To English
      (Where I am upset, you are married, from both sides promises have been made (good and bad times I think is the most important)
      Where I am upset is that you enjoy yourself is a gym (very negaitive indication to me)
      Why do you need this?
      Anyhow please stay your marriage promise (you did I think)
      If your husband goes astray so be it, depends if you are loyal.
      Still you choose him because of a reason I think.

      Please be caring to your husband, perhaps he changed, but accept and accomodate, you are the wife and that is your duty even if husband detiorates, life is there, restaurants, money. If he wants to divorce is of course NOT good at all, and I would not accept, but did you do what you could ?


      As for me a gym is not good, there is other things to be exhausted, if my wife would go to gyms I would be sad. (by the way married for well over 20 years)


      Christof
      16-08-2023
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